Okay this is what I'm talking about. My wife today got onto me about talking with my friends online because one of my friends told me a pretty messed up story about a friend of ours and I just had to tell one of my other friends. She tells me I'm not going to have any friends if I "gossip" WTF?? Now, the friend that told me this story was kinda talking a little crap about the friend in question. That for me is considered gossip, when you start to criticize that person in a mean manner. Or, if you spread crap around habitually. I, on the other hand did not do that when telling the story to my one friend. I didn't get into the whole "that guy is an idiot" gossip trash talk.
And I know my wife gossip's, I hear it everyday from her when she come home from work. Why does she do this? I mean she must realize that she's a Hypocrite. I love her man but I don't understand why she acts this way sometimes? It's weird , like she's just being jealous of me talking to my friends.. Sometimes I hear her talk about her day at work and really seems like she just goes way out of her way to let me know that people at work like her and think she 's cool or whatever. Like, she'll tell me "oh this guy here really likes me he helps me with stuff. I see him looking at me all the time" I don't say anything.. I just try and change the subject. I would never try to make her feel that way, like attention from some other women excited me like that. It seems she's trying to make me jealous. And then when she sees me talking to just one my guy friends, she doesn't show jealousy dead on. She'll just be overly critical about what were talking about or shell say somthing like what she said above. That round about jealousy.
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Exactly, couldn't have put it better Jen. If she has any respect for you, the marriage and your child then she's got to tell you everything, what really went on with that guy, where was her mind at that point and where is it now. Only then can you all as a family properly start to move forward again.
