I Found the Cure to Obsessive Collecting

[Skiman]

 

[daikkenaurora]

So did you cuddle in bed with her last night LC? Please lie to me and tell me no.

 

[Maglor]

 

[The Craw]

dump that broad off on the next block, man. why anybody would want to be with the same woman more than once always puzzles me anyway.

 

[fosing]

Couldnt agree more!

One of the last things she said to me was you'll never make it without me.

Hmmmm let us digest that for a minute.......

Promotion check!

New Car check!

Several beautiful girlfriends since check!

New House check!

See a pattern here? I'm failing on so many levels I don't know where to begin.

and i quote tyler durden:
Where you are now you can't even imagine what the bottom will be like
Only after disaster can we be resurrected
It's only after you've lost everything that you're free to do anything

 

[daikkenaurora]

and i quote tyler durden:
Where you are now you can't even imagine what the bottom will be like
Only after disaster can we be resurrected
It's only after you've lost everything that you're free to do anything

Quote coming from the guy that blew up several buildings, made soap from human fat and blew up his alter ego's/his own apartment. classic.

 

[DarkDaysinVegas]

Tyler is the EFFIN' man!

 

[daikkenaurora]

Tyler is the EFFIN' man!

Yes I know. I have the mark on my hand to prove it.

 

[LChinoz]

Update: I acted like an idiot last night. I begged her to stay with me! She left to look for an apartment. I called her mom and told her how I was so sad and she said the feelings must not have been the same between the both of us. I got off he phone and started thinking. When was the last time I was truly attracted to my ex gf in a sexual way? The answer was not for 3 years. When did I have an urge to be romantic with her? The answer was once when we went on a vacation to Maui. How often do I want to kiss her? The answer was never. I realized that we stopped being in a relationship a long time ago. I felt like an idiot. I called her and we talked. I told her that I understand why we broke up, because we were never really together since 2007. We went from being lovers to just friends. I felt calm and a bit excited about the epiphany. I told her to give me a chance to show her I was okay. I didn't want to lose my best friend, and I realized I don't have to. So last night she did stay with me but there was no cuddling. The thing with me is I am so afraid of change, which is why I was so scared when she said it was over. But in all honesty I think we can live together and be friends forever because the idea of being in love was only in our minds. I love her so much, but not in a romantic way. I love playing games and watching movies with her, but never feel the urge to be romantic. She is truly my once in a lifetime best friend.

 

[Maglor]

Okay. Now I will say:

MOVE ON!


You just needed to find your own way.


If you can stay friends, great!

But you gotta sleep in different beds.

 

[LChinoz]

Agreed. I am ready to move on. I am glad I didn't ruin our friendship. But I am on the prowl ladies! (well, will be).

 

[plasmid303]

F--k, does this mean we're not getting any of your stuff?

 

[wHySoSeRiOuS203]

yea cause I kinda think we all deserve something for helping im just playin..unless you're gonna do it

 

[azurepred]

this title is misleading...........it only applies to ppl in a relationship for 5 years? This doesnt cure anything for me

 

[LChinoz]

I don't have an urge to collect yet. It still bums me out that I don't have a girlfriend, the idea of dating again or being alone is terrifying to me. But, I need to be strong and move on. I don't know if the collecting urge will totally come back, because looking at my toys right now makes me feel kind of unfulfilled. I can't imagine selling some of my stuff though, I love them too much. I hope that this bummed out feeling passes soon, because I know I could be having a blast right now, collecting, spending time with my friends (well, friend) and family, and enjoying life. I know I was in a rut of a relationship but it still sucks that I've lost that loving feeling.

 

[LChinoz]

this title is misleading...........it only applies to ppl in a relationship for 5 years? This doesnt cure anything for me

Well if you have a gf or wife, try making her despise you till she breaks it off, and see if that cures it! I'm sure how long you've been together won't matter too much.

 

[daikkenaurora]

I don't have an urge to collect yet. It still bums me out that I don't have a girlfriend, the idea of dating again or being alone is terrifying to me. But, I need to be strong and move on. I don't know if the collecting urge will totally come back, because looking at my toys right now makes me feel kind of unfulfilled. I can't imagine selling some of my stuff though, I love them too much. I hope that this bummed out feeling passes soon, because I know I could be having a blast right now, collecting, spending time with my friends (well, friend) and family, and enjoying life. I know I was in a rut of a relationship but it still sucks that I've lost that loving feeling.

Those 2 concepts dont go together LC.

 

[wHySoSeRiOuS203]

I'll be your friend Lchinoz

 

[LChinoz]

Those 2 concepts dont go together LC.

Well the first year or so I had that loving feeling!

 

[LChinoz]

I'll be your friend Lchinoz

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