Who are They?
Some people define serial killer groupies (SKGs) in narrow terms, such as women who fall in love with those killers who have been caught and are awaiting trial or are in prison. Other definitions include anyone, male or female, who shows some obsession with serial killers, to the point of extreme emotional attachment. It's not always clear whether the phrase "serial killer groupie," refers to people who just love the idea of a serial killer and would be aroused by any sort of contact, or more strictly to those who have become attached to a specific killer.
In any event, serial killers prove to be magnets for some people, mostly (but not always) females, and experts have offered a variety of reasons why. Among them are:
* Rescue fantasies: the SKG wants to believe that she has the ability to change someone as cruel and powerful as a serial killer.
* Need to nurture: many women have said that they see the little boy in these killers and feel an overwhelming desire to nurture and protect that part of him.
* The perfect boyfriend: she knows where he is at all times, and while she can now claim that someone loves her, she does not have to endure the day-to-day issues of most relationships; she can keep the fantasy charged up for a long time.
* Need for drama: during the trial, the daily events in the lives of serial killers may attract women who want to get close to the adversarial atmosphere and the possibility that something surprising may occur.
* Hybristophilia: some people are sexually excited by others who commit violence
* Exclusivity: there's a real sense of ownership of the facts about the killers—which confers its own special status—among those who feel intimately associated with them
* Regaining the lost male: some who have been abused, neglected or without a father figure look to the killer to fill that need
* Vicarious fantasies: some wish to live out their own visions of violence through a person who can actually act them out
* Low self-esteem: some women believe they cannot find a man and since men in prison are desperately lonely, it's an easy way to get involved
* Attention: when they do something like get involved with a killer, people talk about them and often the media puts a spotlight on them
* Eminence: they evolve from Nobodies into Somebodies
* The chance to show their mettle: they align themselves against the world in a heated defense of their beloved
* Beauty and the Beast syndrome: they like the idea of getting close to danger that will probably not hurt them, but there's always the slight chance
Interestingly, many SKGs are educated and attractive. Some have money, and some are already married. Quite a few are mothers, and it's often the case that they work in some related field, such as psychology or law enforcement...