Wow, this is why I never plan on getting married. When her time is up, it's up... no messy paperwork or attorney needed. Congrats though. If you feel so obliged maybe you could tell the painful story about what happened so we can all learn from others 'mistakes'.Viking28 said:Thanks guys!!
If anybody needs any advice or whatever let me know. Best thing to do if your about to enter the devil's lair is keep your cool and be prepaired. And remeber one thing: she's not getting a divorce because she loves and cares about you.
Darth Roranous said:Wow, this is why I never plan on getting married. When her time is up, it's up... no messy paperwork or attorney needed. Congrats though. If you feel so obliged maybe you could tell the painful story about what happened so we can all learn from others 'mistakes'.
Oh and by the way, good advice about keeping your cool.
Darth Roranous said:If you feel so obliged maybe you could tell the painful story about what happened so we can all learn from others 'mistakes'.
Viking28 said:Well like Fett said once you notice she is nutjob GET OUT!! If she ever brings up lets take a break or whatever crazy stuff she says. Bam don't wait get out now! Start a journal of everything, get a good attorney, know your laws, start talking to people who have gone through it. Because guys the system is against the father, I didn't believe it until I saw it. How biased it is, its amazing that it exists in this day and age. And if your state has a parenting class/family class you have to take before the divorce is granted. Be very careful of what you sign if your going to try to go at it alone, I felt really sorry for the dads in that class. Because they were like "sign this and sign that, don't worry the judge will figure this out for you!"
They got to me and were like "ooo well you have a lawyer, we can't do nothing for you."
Don't blow up when you find out she is with someone else, this is taking the heat off you and she sees the world as a happy place. Use it to your advantage.
Keep it cool and bite the tongue, be understanding
And if your like me and hate playing the games, your going to have to play the games and learn quick. Kind of like chess or maybe more like poker. This isn't the woman you married, if she has the chance she'll leave you with nothing and keep the kids 99% of the time.
AND NEVER MOVE OUT OF YOUR HOME!
Dont go out and buy expensive stuff......wait for all that until its signed.
And this isn't a hate women thread, because it isn't, there is a lot good women out there. I just didn't marry one.
Kabukiman said:Unfortunately, I don't see a bunch of divorced men joining together to create the momentum necessary for such a change.
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