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Nessasita

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EVERYONE NEEDS TO READ ALL OF THIS and HAVE CHILDREN READ IT TOO!

After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and get online. She logged on under her screen name ByAngel213. She checked her Buddy List and saw GoTo123 was on. She sent him an instant message:

ByAngel213:
Hi. I'm glad you are on! I thought someone was following me home today. It was really weird!

GoTo123:
LOL You watch too much TV. Why would someone be following you?
Don' t you live in a safe neighborhood?

ByAngel213:
Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz' I didn't see anybody when I looked out.

GoTo123:
Unless you gave your name out on-line. You haven't done that have you?

ByAngel213:
Of course not. I'm not stupid you know.

GoTo123:
Did you have a softball game after school today?

ByAngel213:
Yes and we won!!

GoTo123:
That's great! Who did you play?

ByAngel213:
We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so gross! They look like bees. LOL

GoTo123:
What is your team called?

ByAngel213:
We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger paws on our uniforms. They are really cool.

GoTo1 23:
Did you pitch?

ByAngel213:
No I play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before my parents get home. I don't want them mad at me. Bye!

GoTo123:
Catch you later. Bye

Meanwhile.......GoTo123 went to the member menu and began to search for her profile. When it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out. He took out a pen and began to write down what he knew about Angel so far

Her name: Shannon
Birthday: Jan. 3, 1985
Age: 13
State where she lived: North Carolina

Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall. Besides this information, he knew she lived in Canton because she had just told him. He knew she stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m. every afternoon until her parents came home from work. He knew she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the school team, and the team was named th e Canton Cats. Her favorite number 7 was printed on her jersey. He knew she was in the eighth grade at the Canton Junior High School . She had told him all this in the conversations they had on- line. He had enough information to find her now.

Shannon didn't tell her parents about the incident on the way home from the ballpark that day. She didn't want them to make a scene and stop her from walking home from the softball games. Parents were always overreacti ng and hers were the worst. It made her wish she was not an only child. Maybe if she had brothers and sisters, her parents wouldn't be so overprotective.

By Thursday, Shannon had forgotten about the footsteps following her.

Her game was in full swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at her. It was then that the memory came back. She glanced up from her second base position to see a man watching her closely.

He was leaning against the fence behind first base and he smiled when she looked at him. He didn't look scary and she quickly dismissed the sudden fear she had felt.

After the game, he sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach. She noticed his smile once again as she walked past him. He nodded and she smiled back. He noticed her name on the back of her shirt. He knew he had found her.

Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her. It was only a few blocks to Shannon 's home, and once he saw where she lived he quickly returned to the park to get his car.

Now he had to wait. He decided to get a bite to eat until the time came to go to Shannon 's house. He drove to a fast food restaurant and sat there until time to make his move.

Shannon was in her room later that evening when she heard voices in the living room.

"Shannon, come here," her father called. He sounded upset and she couldn't imagine why. She went into the room to see the man from the ballpark sitting on the sofa.

"Sit down," her father began, "this man has just told us a most interesting story about you."

Shannon sat back. How could he tell her parents anything? She had never seen him before today!

"Do you know who I am, Shannon ?" the man asked.

"No," Shannon answered.

"I am a police officer and your online friend, GoTo123."

Shannon was stunned. "That's impossible! GoTo is a kid my age! He's 14. And he lives in Michigan !"

The man smiled. "I know I told you all that, but it wasn't true. You see, Shannon , there are people on-line who pretend to be kids; I was one of them But while others do it to injure kids and hurt them, I belong to a group of parents who do it to protect kids from predators. I came here to find you to teach you how dangerous it is to talk to people on-line. You told me enough about yourself to make it easy for me to find you. You named the school you went to, the name of your ball team and the position you played The number and name on your jersey just made finding you a breeze."

Shannon was stunned. "You mean you don't live in Michigan ?"

He laughed. "No, I live in Raleigh It made you feel safe to think I was so far away, didn't it?"

She nodded.

"I had a friend whose daughter was like you. Only she wasn't as lucky. The guy found her and murdered her whi le she was home alone. Kids are taught not to tell anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the time on-line. The wrong people trick you into giving out information a little here and there on-line. Before you know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even realizing you have done it. I hope you've learned a lesson from this and won't do it again. Tell others about this so they will be safe too?"

"It's a promise!"

You can never be too careful so I thought this would be good for people here with kids. You can always copy and paste in an email and send it to your friends. Thanks. It is a crazy world out there.
 
That's a ridiculous story. People online mostly don't have friends that they don't know in some way, they don't just add friends for no good reason. And his screen name was obviously fake (Goto123?)

There are online predators out there, but you'd have to be completely stupid to be caught by one.
 
darthviper107 said:
That's a ridiculous story. People online mostly don't have friends that they don't know in some way, they don't just add friends for no good reason. And his screen name was obviously fake (Goto123?)

There are online predators out there, but you'd have to be completely stupid to be caught by one.

Guess I am stupid then... in February 2004 when I joined the board I did not know anyone and I made some good friends on this board. I met people in real life and even found love here.

There are a lot of teenagers very vulnerable to predators and just to call them stupid is pretty ignorant to me. Some people don't have a good family and they look for some kind of friendship online and yes then it is very easy to believe the sweet talk to some people. That does not mean that they are stupid.

I just hope that your kids one day aren't stupid enough to fall for it.
 
I hope darthviper's post was intended tongue-in-cheek, to emphasize the way some kids might react to the story, thinking "it could never happen to me" or "that was obviously made up to scare me, but I don't believe it's real".

That was the intent of that post, right?

It is obvious that names, dates and places in the story were changed, but there is no question that this situation has been all too real for far too many families.
 
If there were truly no kids that would fall for this, then there would be no children victimized by online predators.

Very important thread, even if just raises the awareness a bit.

Great job Ness!
 
After seeing some of those To Catch a Predator specials, it's scary to think of all the deviants out there.
 
Does thie mean p!tu is really across the street from me and after my junk:monkey2


I knew something was up with that pervert!!
 
Nessasita said:
Guess I am stupid then... in February 2004 when I joined the board I did not know anyone and I made some good friends on this board. I met people in real life and even found love here.

There are a lot of teenagers very vulnerable to predators and just to call them stupid is pretty ignorant to me. Some people don't have a good family and they look for some kind of friendship online and yes then it is very easy to believe the sweet talk to some people. That does not mean that they are stupid.

I just hope that your kids one day aren't stupid enough to fall for it.

No, that's not it. Boards are much different. On Myspace and facebook you can choose who you want to talk to and people don't usually just add random people that they don't know anything about as a friend.

I know most people know how to be careful online. This story sounds like something made up (people don't usually stalk children just to kill them, it would more likely be rape than outright murder). News is so bad about it too because they'll do segments where they talk about stuff that is obvious to avoid.
 
The story may be fake but the message sure isn't. People give away WAY too much info on those things.
 
King Darkness said:
Does thie mean p!tu is really across the street from me and after my junk:monkey2


I knew something was up with that pervert!!
you ****er:rotfl :rotfl :rotfl :rotfl :rotfl :rotfl :rotfl





im watching you!!!!!My screen name is GoToMexico:rotfl
 
Most of these stories are urban myths. However, one can take that this kind of stuff COULD happen and learn a lesson from it.
 
Few things on this story. It is not that uncommon for cops/investigators to end up speaking to the underage kids. Obviously they would have changed the usernames so the goto123 is fake but the story may not be. I have heard that somethimes if they do catch a predator before anything happens wih other kids that they will contact the kid and tell them they are cops afterwards and tell them that it was them the whole time and not to do this. This makes it easier to expain the sudden disappearance of the real person and not have to tell them that this guy was a predator.

I have actually been looking into doing computer investigations for a while now may start doing this pretty soon.
 
darthviper107 said:
No, that's not it. Boards are much different. On Myspace and facebook you can choose who you want to talk to and people don't usually just add random people that they don't know anything about as a friend.

I know most people know how to be careful online. This story sounds like something made up (people don't usually stalk children just to kill them, it would more likely be rape than outright murder). News is so bad about it too because they'll do segments where they talk about stuff that is obvious to avoid.
Actually there is a frightening network of pedophiles and they know that their chances of being caught decrease significantly if they kill the child after the molestation.

Why aren't these guys killed immediately?
 
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