If people keep bringing up the subject... things will never change and the hostility and name calling will continue... everybody has read what everybody was thinking... there are nice people... nasty people... but people can only make a difference if they start looking at themselves before pointing fingers to anyone else.
Wars and fights usually get started through politics and religion. Don't you people have enough of all the killings, abductions, rapes that you read in the newspaper and see on television each day? Do you really need to come here and be frustrated and make other people upset?
I am stressed out from working 7 days a week... and this used to be a place where I could de-stress after work... but lately this is not the case anymore. It was a fun place... and it can be a place like that again if people just let it go. Do not bring up the same subject over and over... complaining about threads getting locked... about how much you hate this other person... you cannot love everyone in life... but I sure as hell try to see the good in each person... yes... I have been hurt more than once by doing that... been taken advantage off cause I want to be good for everyone... my friendship is forever... but if I get hurt by someone... I learn from my mistakes and move on and I do not bother with that person anymore... his/her loss I think.
You know... we are all adults here... you got to be smarter than the person that gets you upset. I think that when you do not react when a person is nasty... he might try it again... and again... but if you do not react at all... eventually they will stop. Some of them might never stop at all... but that is their problem... I am not going to let them ruin my life and my fun her because of their negativity.
Positive things in life are important. Guys and girls... you only have one life... do you really want one with fighting all the time? I don't. If you have anger issues... pick up some sports like boxing so you can get rid of it... don't bring it here... we love LOTR, SS and SW and whatever else you collect. If your spouse pisses you off... do not work it out on us... jk.
So... this is the end of my thoughts... move on... be happy... and love you all... if we ever have a meeting I want to have drinks and laughter and fun and not a boxing match