I've read about 5 Anita Blake books and it's true after a while they stop being urban fantasy and head into soft-core porn, friend of mine's wife has read all of her books and said the later ones are pretty much women's hard-core porn furry style. I remember reading an interview with True Bloods Alan Ball a few years back and the Anita Blake series was on his radar as a HBO show but he ended up going with Harris's True Blood. Would have been interesting to see as an HBO show.
A few years back I read a series by Justin Gustainis that started with Black Magic Women, it's not a big name author but it's pretty good.
Another good recommendation would be Mike Carey's Felix Castor series, it's a bit like the vertigo Hellblazer comic series. It's a bit more grounded then most urban fantasy (which I like) and Carey's always been a quality writer, so definitely worth checking out.
Evan